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Just remember you first date! How desperately you wished to impress her! How trembling you were, setting the time and place. And everything seemed to be so easy! But here you are – waiting and worrying. And you can’t collect your thoughts…
These long-long minutes of waiting for that darling only one. You want to impress her, then to see her again and to devote all your life to her. Of course not every date is a beginning of durable serious relationships, which end up with wedding, but these are very important moments of your life. Especially, if you are a guy. Your self-appraisal depends on the ability to impress a girl.
On the first date you can see, if you can make her fall in love with you, if you can do everything just to be near her!
How to make a positive impression on the first date? What to do to attract her attention, to start long relations with that unforgettable fascinating girl? Everyone knows that the man loves with his eyes and the woman – with her ears. But don’t underestimate her ability to evaluate your style.
Here you are, standing in front of open wardrobe, with not so many clothing. Of course guys don’t pay so much attention on their clothing as girls. Girls try to attract attention with a help of appearance, and guys try to rise above with their heroism and courage!
But still… Don’t wear the training suit and running shoes – you’ll feel comfortable, but the girl won’t like it. Even if you are a sportsman, date is not a training, but rather a competition. That’s why you have to look perfect. If you want to impress her, you’d better choose a classical style.
But don’t exaggerate! Trying to impress her, don’t wear a suit. Let it be trousers and clean ironed shirt. Jeans will also be OK, but without tatters and smudges. It will be better to wear a beautiful belt. Your shoes should be clean. She will notice it. And she will like your tidiness. And if you’ll need to take your shoes off, try not to wear worn socks.
Don’t wear bright colors! You’ll look like a parrot. Neither your friends nor your girl-friend will like that. Wear something dark. Black is advisable. You’ll seem calm and confident. And girls like that!
You should take a shower before the date and use a deodorant or toilet water. But don’t use too much! Girls like light perfumes. You can be sure, that if the date is successful, she will fall in love with this smell forever!
And of course, don’t be late! Punctuality – it’s what every girl like. And it would be even better if you came 10 minutes earlier.
Consider everything. When you meet her, ask where she would like to go. If she doubts, offer your variants (no less then three). She will like it. Begin your walk from the park. Think over such way, that you won’t need to use transport. Then show her such places, from which you can see the twilight city. She will evaluate your romanticism. You can finish your walk in the cozy café.
Remember one rule – girls don’t like chatterboxes, but they don’t like silent ones either! Find the golden middle. Carry on a dialogue. Answer her questions and ask, make her feel that you are interested in her.
Men like talking about their achievements, success; it’s a part of their life. Of course, you shouldn’t keep silence about it and don’t be ashamed to talk about your goals and plans. Girls like purposeful ones. But don’t forget that such qualities as sensibility, attentiveness and care are very important for girls. Let her be a kitten for you, whom you pet. To impress her, don’t be afraid to pay her compliments. In the evening don’t forget to ask, if she is cold. Watching the sunset, approach to her back and touch her shoulders. She’ll like that, though she won’t show it.
The best variant is an emotional chat during the walk. She will like that. On the first date don’t talk about sex (she may think that you need only that), your disadvantages, your diseases, about things you dislike, especially about people you don’t like, and of course don’t use obscene language.
Don’t take your friend to a date. First, she may think that you are a coward. Second, she may think that you feel boring with her. If you accidentally met your friends, don’t ask them to walk with you. A girl wants to talk to you, not to your friends. And you want her to be impressed by you, not buy your friends. Only after some time, you can offer her to meet with your close friends. But if you met somebody, introduce your girl-friend at once. Don’t let her be unnoticed.
It is very important that you see her to the door. Girls appreciate that very much. But modern guys often forget that. Don’t be too lazy!
She will also like, if you tell her how nice it was and that you are looking forward to see her again as soon as possible. But you should be honest. Don’t say that you have so much to do, but you find a minute to see her. Usually girls do that. And you wait. That’s the way to impress her.
First kiss! It’s very important! It should be light and at the same time persistent, showing her that she is your goddess now!
Stay there till her gorgeous figure won’t disappear. They like it. It will be nice if you finish your date with pleasant sms.
And the next day wish her a good morning the same way, so that she’ll be sure that you didn’t forget her. And then – you are to decide.
It is recommended to go on the second date with flowers. You will not only impress her but may arouse deeper feelings.
We wish you good luck! |